A vacation from sex is a great time to do some goal setting, life planning, and following through. After all, there's no one around to stop you, is there?
How do you want to live your life? Don't go small here. Dream big.
Can I make a suggestion here: try not to focus so much on the man thing. Get yourself together first.
Next, write down your goals. Write activities for accomplishing those goals and then a reasonable timeline for completion.
That's it. If you've got a long list of goals, you might want to pick the top one or two so that you can focus on getting the activities done. You don't want to spread your energies too thin.
Let me know how your 'vacation' is going!