I love the story about Annie and Doug Brown who decided to try a great experiment in love: 101 days of sex. They found that making the commitment and sticking to it created wonderful intimacy in their relationship.
It's so easy to throw in the towel when it comes to relationships. That's why the divorce rate is so high and why so many singles opt for kickin' it and hanging out vs. making the commitment to make love work.
Celibacy makes sense when you're single and not yet partnered up. Sex makes sense when you're in a loving relationship and want to stay connected. Either way, solo or with someone, it's a labor of love.