Remember that bestselling book, The Rules, that came out a few years ago? It occurred to me recently that you don't need arbitrary rules for dating if you have a full life. You'll never have to pretend to be busy to make yourself appear unavailable. Many times you will be unavailable because you've got so much to do. If you've used your term of celibacy to, among other things, develop self-confidence and self-worth, then you can agree to go out with him in the next few minutes if you feel like it. No more game playing! Let's keep it real! The problem is, too many men are so used to the games they may misinterpret your genuineness. Hey, that's their problem. Your job is to live life and live it to the fullest.
Just something to think about.
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